Dick Pics (Poll for women)  

DiscreteSlowRide 51M
122 posts
7/19/2021 6:43 pm
Dick Pics (Poll for women)

So ladies, I read your profile (yeah...I'm the one who reads it), I see your comments in the blogs and I read almost the same thing from .....about 95% of you. You are sick of the dick pics men post in their profiles and when they send dick pics in their emails to you. Or at least 95% of you are.
The other 5%... to each her own.

Let's poll the questions and let the majority decide.

What are your thoughts on dick pics whether they are sent to you in emails or you JUST want to read a guy's profile and you are greeted with his 6 to 7 inches of fury!
Enough with the dick pics guys!
I LOVE when men email me pics of the dicks before we have had a conversation.


BiggLala 49F  
29846 posts
7/19/2021 7:27 pm

Ehh...I'm somewhere in the middle. I don't specifically rail against dick pics. Seeing so many all the time, they just get...uninspiring...after a while. Like...it's really difficult for me to get excited about ANY dick anymore.

Anyway...I learned that the type of pics a guy posts, shows his sole intentions. Leading with a dick pic (i.e. sending unsolicited) and/or he has majority (read: only) dick pics on his profile means the guy only wants sex. You'll get very little to no conversation, no non-sexual related interaction from that guy what-so-ever.

I also have my opinions on men who post face pics, body pics, an assortment of pics, and no pics at all.

Of course, this is my opinion based on my experiences.

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DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/20/2021 5:36 am:
Fair points Lala. I think the pics a man posts also say something about his character and they type of guy he is.
To your point a dick pick says he is all about sex (or... he doesn't have much more to offer)

Pics of his car or other toys....I see that as he does not have much more to offer
Shirt off...probably all about sex.
Posing with a fish or hunting...pft... The jury is still out on that one.
A face pic even a partial face pic say...This is me.

author51 58F
119502 posts
7/19/2021 10:46 pm

I did not vote as even though I enjoy dick picsA "Hello. How are you?" would be nice first...xoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life.....xoxo

WICKED WEDNESDAY VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED


jajo696 66F
3678 posts
7/20/2021 12:59 am

Voted..... Enough is Enough

If Thats all they got ...and are sooooo prod of it...they have bought the hype of the " get laid tonight" promo.

Ya seen one ya seen em all....we become numb to em.

If i want to see it...ill ask. I dont like sharing and dont want the world to see what a potential partner has to offer.

......and if ur leading with ur dick....thats the kind of person you are trying to attract....and thats not my kinda people.

There are soooooo many other facets to a person....~~


BiSussi 60F
951 posts
7/20/2021 1:37 am

    Quoting author51:
    I did not vote as even though I enjoy dick picsA "Hello. How are you?" would be nice first...xoxo
She did it, she told you, you neglected us women who want a pic of the equipment, but also get an impression of his personality. You kept us from voting

I love pussies and adore nice dicks


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/20/2021 3:28 am:
Hi Sussi, I might be misreading your note in red...

.....She did it, she told you, you neglected us women who want a pic of the equipment, but also get an impression of his personality. You kept us from voting.....

The 2nd vote option was >>>I LOVE when men email me pics of the dicks before we have had a conversation.

A few hours after I posted this it occurred to me that I should have offered an option that is more neutral. Ugh...

Brownie202 64F
2381 posts
7/20/2021 1:53 am

Not only do I not like them I have it as a hard limit. Stopped looking at who viewed and hot listed me. The only one I want to see is the man I am with.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


bigbananaguy 49M  
13 posts
7/20/2021 4:40 am

If a woman or couple is disturbed by seeing a pic of my dick, then they're not for me, they're on the wrong website, and they save me time by ignoring me.


WyoCowboy7751 68M
1917 posts
7/20/2021 5:36 am

Hear the Bell ringing ???? It's the Dic Pic question making it into the Guinness Book of World Records for, Most Asked Question on Sex Sites Can Almost Guarantee that This Question will, Without a Doubt, show up again in the BLOGS Within the next couple of weeks !!!


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/20/2021 6:45 am:
LOL
No this is the last one for quite a while. I didn't get much traction out of the post from a few weeks ago so I figured the poll would rally a lot more interest and participation.
By the way...I don't know where you got the mini cowboy hat but kudos to you for creativity!

itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/20/2021 7:50 am

    Quoting bigbananaguy:
    If a woman or couple is disturbed by seeing a pic of my dick, then they're not for me, they're on the wrong website, and they save me time by ignoring me.
LOL As you are a MARRIED MAN I am sure you don't want you face showing at all. Because YOU don't want a relationship and want to just fuck around behind your wife's back doesn't mean that women that want to see your face are worthless. I would have to then wonder why if your dick is so wonderful and it is all you are offering... why is your WIFE not enamored by your enormous dick and its abilities? Why is SHE not fucking you blind as she looks at it daily??

This just backs the idea that women are trying to state... it is NOT all about your dick. If you ARE a dick then the dick between your legs is worthless to most women. I am not against men wanting and looking for sex, but don't expect women to think like a guy and just fuck any genital shoved at us. Guys see 1 billion boobs and want to see 1 billion and 1. Women see a few dicks and just like a few have already said we become numb to it. It is not that big of a thrill for us like boobs are to men. Yes, there are those that want to see it, but most of us don't want to see it BEFORE we see your face. Quasimodo had a dick.. I won't fuck him no matter what his dick looked like!!

I will say this... if you had a daughter or sister would you tell THEM to ask a guy to see his dick FIRST and nothing else matters??? I am betting that is a hard NO. Yet they think that is how we should be treated. You don't tell your daughters/sisters that the only important thing for them to know about a man is his dick yet you think it is all that counts.

As the other poster said this is one of the most asked questions online. It will continue to be asked and there will be those that will believe dick first talk later will work no matter what they are told. It worked for someone somewhere so therefor they believe it will always work for everyone..blah blah blah.


bigbananaguy 49M  
13 posts
7/20/2021 8:19 am

You're absolutely correct that I am just looking for sex on a sex website.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/20/2021 8:29 am

I have been thinking about this line, If you don't like a dick pic you are on the wrong site." Why would one think if you are here you MUST want to see dicks?? I am lost on that. So if a woman wants to see a man's face first she has to LEAVE???? There are not enough women on here to begin with yet you have guys telling women to LEAVE based on we didn't want to see his dick??? That is INSANE!!!! Because you want to show it doesn't mean a woman HAS to want to see it or get off the site.. what a load of crap!!

The only dick "I" want to see is the man I AM WITH! Not just random guys shoving it at me thinking "if you got it flaunt it' crap. Again, they don't tell their daughters/sisters to ask about dicks FIRST and foremost, so why do it to us?? Yeah, we are here, but ALL MEN have a dick, not BEING a dick is the trick. Saw it posted and repeat it often.


BiggLala 49F  
29846 posts
7/20/2021 8:39 am

I think the pics a man posts also say something about his character and they type of guy he is.
To your point a dick pick says he is all about sex (or... he doesn't have much more to offer)

-I'll have to disagree with you here where you correlate pics to a person's character. I don't think the two relate.

Someone "just" looking for sex does not mean they have a poor character, or are a "bad" person. I'm not the type of person to ascribe poor character traits to a sexual person. That is...unless he is not honest about his intentions (for example). As in one instance, I got to know a person from here a few years ago. I learned over many months that he was a person of low character. However, the majority of his pics were face pics, only 1 or 2 dick pics. I've met men whose pics were dick pics and they were honest about what they sought. Hell...the last guy I met from here had one pic...a face pic...and he was dishonest. Sooo.... 💁🏽‍♀️

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DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 7:23 am:
(DISCRETE QUOTED)....I think the pics a man posts also say something about his character and they type of guy he is.
To your point a dick pick says he is all about sex (or... he doesn't have much more to offer) (END QUOTE)

-I'll have to disagree with you here where you correlate pics to a person's character. I don't think the two relate.

Someone "just" looking for sex does not mean they have a poor character, or are a "bad" person. I'm not the type of person to ascribe poor character traits to a sexual person.

LaLa, I never said someone just looking for sex is a bad person or of bad character. I didn't come close to saying that.

My point is I am criticizing a man's picture choices and I stated pretty clearly. Look at what you quoted me saying.

bigbananaguy 49M  
13 posts
7/20/2021 11:24 am

Whenever I don't want to see pics of people's genitalia, I avoid visiting explicit sex websites, but that's just me.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/20/2021 5:50 pm

Quote 1 : You're absolutely correct that I am just looking for sex on a sex website.
Quote 2 : Whenever I don't want to see pics of people's genitalia, I avoid visiting explicit sex websites, but that's just me.


First off this is so much MORE than a 'sex site' i.e. an online whorehouse where you come JUST to fuck. People are here, including men, for more than JUST to fuck. Let me show you this (copied from someone else for the colors) . This is Hot Socials not adult fuck finder... then....

Let me point out to you that this is in the HELP section of the site. I didn't write it...

What is the purpose of Hot Socials?

The purpose of the Hot Socials site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Hot Socials, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Hot Socials a successful and fun experience.


So there is no specification that says one must be f*cking to be on here. This is an adult Social network. Most people use caps because of people that don't get what something means and we want you to notice it. This is not an online whorehouse warehouse. (copied from the other person that put in the colors)

So to assume we are all here to fuck and do one night stands with 50 strangers in 50 days is WRONG! One should not assume anything. There are lesbians here as well as gay men and no one is telling the lesbians to start fucking men OR LEAVE!!

That brings me to #2... no one said we didn't think anyone should post photos of your dick. What we are saying is, and I repeat it, QUASIMODO HAD A DICK...NO ONE IS FUCKING HIM!!! You are proud of your dick like you should be. That doesn't mean women will be whores and/or sluts and drop our pants to fuck it. That would be almost every guy on here and women DO have preferences. If you have a dick and ARE a dick.. no pussy. If you have a dick and stink to high heaven like a skunk..no pussy. If you have a dick and are rude and insulting..NO PUSSY!! Do not assume again that because you posted a dick shot that women will rush to fuck you even on a supposed sex site!!! Lesbians don't want it at all and seeing one won't make them change. Maybe you as a guy want to see dicks. More power to you, but because a woman says I want to see your FACE not your dick does NOT mean we should LEAVE the site. THAT was my point. Having some modicum of manners and be able to say "Hello, how are you?" and have a normal conversation before slamming out "wanna fuck" and a dick shot goes a LONG way!!

Again, you can be here for whatever reason YOU wish. No one has said that I can see if you have a dick pic leave the site, but.. BUT.. someone saying if you don't want to see my dick get off the site is stupid. I don't even see anyone saying "I don't want to see genitalia." They said they didn't want to see genitalia FIRST or ONLY your dick. Anyone that thinks a woman will see a dick and a dick ONLY and then meet and have sex... check.. it may be a hoooker!!!! I know of no woman that just fucks anyone with a dick and does it as a one night stand over and over and over for years unless they ARE a hooooker.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/20/2021 5:55 pm

I will add this.. as yes, some did say and me included, the only dick I really want to see is the man I am with.....you may have ended up as the man we were/are with if you didn't shove a dick FIRST at us. IF we get curious maybe we will want to see it, but women on a whole we don't bitch to men to stop it or leave. We just ignore those things we don't want to see. Insisting we MUST want to see it to be here.. again...totally fucking ignorant and stupid. I have yet to see a woman post "if you don't want to see my tits or pussy get off the site." ROFLMAO.... yeah.. women don''t do that. Even if we left that doesn't mean anyone will get pussy from the women left over. They are numbing when all you see is dick after dick after dick and there is no content to the person.


bigbananaguy 49M  
13 posts
7/20/2021 7:28 pm

So you're pathetically reduced to attempting to argue that this is not an explicit sex website. If you were intellectually honest, you'd only be unpleasant.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/20/2021 10:46 pm

    Quoting bigbananaguy:
    So you're pathetically reduced to attempting to argue that this is not an explicit sex website. If you were intellectually honest, you'd only be unpleasant.
As you have never met me you have no clue how opposite your assumption of what type of person I am is. LOL It isn't pathetic, it is the truth. There are men all over the site posting in blogs and the advice lines how they did NOT get laid on here and certainly NOT in 24 hours as the ads read. What is pathetic is that there is a huge number of people, mostly men, that think this is an online whorehouse and you just sign up, post a dick pic, and they sit back and wait for pussy to arrive at their door as if they got a free pizza delivered to them. In reality that NEVER happens to men on here, if it does they are in a very slim number. I even remember the 'guarantee to get laid' ads that were placed and the men that were totally pissed off because they did NOT read the fine print! That fine print said you had to maintain a gold membership for 3 months, send out 3 emails per day, AND write blogs!!! Most people don't even know there are blogs on here and there is a group of people on here JUST to blog and that includes men... yes MEN!! Their profiles state clearly they are here JUST to blog.

I would only be unpleasant to you because you can't get what you want from me. LOL I have quite the following on my cam show and guess what? I am NOT here to meet anyone nor ever have. There are others here JUST to cam and not meet anyone. There are men as well as women here looking for more than 100 one night stands. You may not even realize it, but there is a Magazine section in here that even has different articles and things, mostly written by people on the site, including a 'success' section. I know personally of multiple people on here that got married. LOL They just were not so shallow as to think this was just a site full of people only to be used and tossed away. Are there people here looking for just sex? ABSOLUTELY, but there are many here looking for more than JUST sex. You see only what you want to see. Try actually being more open minded and realize that there are people, men and women, that LOVE sex and want a partner for long term that likes to fuck rather than just a bunch of one time stranger encounters.


T_Louise 56F
160 posts
7/21/2021 2:47 am

Hate dick pics. When that is all a guy has on his profile, or if a dick pic is his initial message, I will see him as a dick only, not a human man.


mufdiver69er2 60M
1646 posts
7/21/2021 2:53 am

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    As you have never met me you have no clue how opposite your assumption of what type of person I am is. LOL It isn't pathetic, it is the truth. There are men all over the site posting in blogs and the advice lines how they did NOT get laid on here and certainly NOT in 24 hours as the ads read. What is pathetic is that there is a huge number of people, mostly men, that think this is an online whorehouse and you just sign up, post a dick pic, and they sit back and wait for pussy to arrive at their door as if they got a free pizza delivered to them. In reality that NEVER happens to men on here, if it does they are in a very slim number. I even remember the 'guarantee to get laid' ads that were placed and the men that were totally pissed off because they did NOT read the fine print! That fine print said you had to maintain a gold membership for 3 months, send out 3 emails per day, AND write blogs!!! Most people don't even know there are blogs on here and there is a group of people on here JUST to blog and that includes men... yes MEN!! Their profiles state clearly they are here JUST to blog.

    I would only be unpleasant to you because you can't get what you want from me. LOL I have quite the following on my cam show and guess what? I am NOT here to meet anyone nor ever have. There are others here JUST to cam and not meet anyone. There are men as well as women here looking for more than 100 one night stands. You may not even realize it, but there is a Magazine section in here that even has different articles and things, mostly written by people on the site, including a 'success' section. I know personally of multiple people on here that got married. LOL They just were not so shallow as to think this was just a site full of people only to be used and tossed away. Are there people here looking for just sex? ABSOLUTELY, but there are many here looking for more than JUST sex. You see only what you want to see. Try actually being more open minded and realize that there are people, men and women, that LOVE sex and want a partner for long term that likes to fuck rather than just a bunch of one time stranger encounters.
too bad he cant take the pearls of wisdom you offer instead of only seeing what warped side he can attempt to argue to justify his shortcomings..but then again that would require open thinking...

woop woop


WyoCowboy7751 68M
1917 posts
7/21/2021 4:43 am

The Hat, I just happened to notice in a Hobby Lobby Craft Store and just couldn't But NOT buy it !!!!


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 7:24 am:
I love it! I like your humor!

1seeking1 55F
3595 posts
7/21/2021 6:23 am

Put the dick pic in a private album, with measuring tape. Why only 6 or 7 inches, we do have some well endowed men here.How come poster does not have a pic up? We are all here for different reasons. Stay safe everyone


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 7:50 am:
To your point, we are all here for different reasons, hence the poster has to remain discrete.

DiscreteSlowRide 51M
234 posts
7/21/2021 7:08 am

I'm onboard with the women on this. ALL the way! Especially to ItsAllFantasy's points.

I have heard this site referred to as a adult dating site, sex site, swinger site...etc... Whether all of the above is accurate, the following is fact...

#1 Going by the poll as of this a few minutes ago the results are.

29 ....STOP with the dick pics ..or 87 percent
4 ......Yes on the Dick Pics ..or 13 percent
Numbers don't lie. Keep it tucked in your shorts gentlemen!!

2. If you attend a swing party at someone's home (or hotel) there are rules of conduct. Men are to Show respect toward women and respect their boundaries.

3. If a man walks into a bar, he spots a woman he wants to meet for... whatever he has in mind...the rules of social conduct does not accept taking his cock out of his pants, walking up to her and asking her if she ...wants to fuck. If all goes well, the bouncers will open the doors with his head.
OH and he could be charged as a level 2 sex offender. (Just sayin)

4. If a man walks into a whorehouse in Vegas, he is to follow the rules of conduct, which includes being respectful toward the women. When they are in agreement of whatever they are going to do, whatever happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. So even in a whorehouse, men are expected to keep it in their pants!!!

So for whatever reason, just because there is anonymity on a website, does not make it acceptable to send dick pics to women and say ... Hey, wanna fuck???


BiggLala 49F  
29846 posts
7/21/2021 8:43 am

LaLa, I never said someone just looking for sex is a bad person or of bad character. I didn't come close to saying that.

My point is I am criticizing a man's picture choices and I stated pretty clearly. Look at what you quoted me saying.

-Okay, you never said a person just looking for sex is a person of bad/poor character. However, you did say, "I think the pics a man posts also say something about his character and they type of guy he is." Granted, I wrote of the negative side just to provide examples, but I did state that "I don't think the two relate." The "two" being pics and a man's character. By that logic, you'd have to say the same for the women who post genital pics.

Thus I'll restate to be more clear, I don't think just looking for sex or the pics a person posts correlate to their character.

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DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 10:41 am:
Again LALA, I never said anything negative about someone looking for sex is a flaw in their character. We all are here to feed some sexual need whether it is just to blog about sexual topics or to find a partner and everything in between.

I stand solid on my position about pics men post. Dick pics are in poor taste ESPECIALLY when 85% of women don't want to see them in the men's profile pics not do women want men to email them dick pics as an introduction. Yet men think...Oh she will love this because it's mine and I'm different and I will convince her I am different than everyone else.

When the majority of woman say loud and clear dick pics will be deleted, a guy has listen, use the head on top of his shoulders and get a little creative.

Case in point.. look at WyoCowboy who posted here, he has the mini cowboy hat covering his goods. That's hysterical and creative!!

So I think men can find a better angle that runs a little deeper than a cock pic.

itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/21/2021 9:42 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    The Hat, I just happened to notice in a Hobby Lobby Craft Store and just couldn't But NOT buy it !!!!
I LOVE IT TOO!! This is really a great idea.


redrockrascal 62M
23029 posts
7/21/2021 10:15 am

This site, site(S) actually, is whatever the user wants it to be. It is the user’s choice to do on it what they want. Nothing on the site says it is solely a “sex site”. People’s opinions on what another person should or should not do here (or anywhere) are worth the paper the opinion is written on. It is pretty narrow-minded to “think” it is only one thing to everyone.

I treat this like any other dating site and that has served me pretty well. On just about every date I’ve been on I’ve asked ‘why did you choose me vs. other guys’. Most of the time the answer included a disinterest in guys who “think” their dick is photogenic and those guys have little to offer.

Also, women have the ability to adjust their view so they don’t see nudity – that essentially makes you and your sausage unseen. So congratulations boys your brilliant strategy has made you not visible to a lot of women.

Just one more thing, it is advantageous to me if others guys wave their dick around because it quickly eliminates them as competition. So go ahead and show the women what little you have to offer and enjoy your sausage fest.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 10:31 am:
Perfectly stated Red...

s2ndegree 62M  
9772 posts
7/21/2021 10:58 am

Really?If you actually have to ask such a stupid question after reading it numerous times.What in the world difference is anyone's answer going to make to you?And all this is important because 1.you'll get a better understanding of what respect is and how it works 2.Evaluate your own sense of entitlement 3.To define your sexual maturity or just be another rude and inappropriate sexually frustrated individual that gets his kicks joining the ranks of those who prefers to bring everyone one down with them.

Using more than all the road!


fflkn4hotbabe 71M  
12 posts
7/21/2021 11:01 am

Not the biggest , but it will get you off and load you with cum.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/21/2021 1:37 pm

    Quoting fflkn4hotbabe:
    Not the biggest , but it will get you off and load you with cum.
This is a joke right? I am not trying to be mean, but you are 71 and this is what you say??????? WOW.. huge assumption you would get to have sex with anyone WITHOUT A CONDOM!!!! That is how diseases are spread regardless of your age OR your dick size. Also a huge assumption you can get someone off. Maybe a lesbian can tell you that she doesn't even LIKE dick, yet you shove it out there with that line??? REALLY????? Wow.... hard pass on that one.

I repeat.. ALL men have a dick, BEING A DICK is the trick and I think you just failed.


MissCinders 55F
1530 posts
7/21/2021 5:19 pm

    Quoting bigbananaguy:
    You're absolutely correct that I am just looking for sex on a sex website.
Well of course you are because you are married. What else would you be looking for? If your wife doesnt want your dick then why would anyone else? This Queen does not eat crumbs off another woman's table.


tooshay_turtle 40M
30 posts
7/21/2021 5:19 pm

I go away for just a short time and noting changes. To the poster, these results have come up over and over and repeat all the time. The men seem to never get that and still insist that if they shove their dick at a woman she will want it.

To the idiot 71 year old that really believes a woman will choose him based on his 'loads of cum' in her, give me a fucking break dude. That is really stupid if you think a woman will not look at your age, your attitude, and your face let alone your attitude if you just tell her you have loads of cum to put in her. That has to be the stupidest thing I have seen in a long time.

To answer this even though I am a guy I know that women don't really want the package first. The blogs in here over and over repeat say hello first, wait till I ask, or tell us just how stupid it is to think with your dick. I get it and I also get that this is not a 'sex site'. I have yet to just log in and get some sex.


MissCinders 55F
1530 posts
7/21/2021 5:23 pm

    Quoting bigbananaguy:
    So you're pathetically reduced to attempting to argue that this is not an explicit sex website. If you were intellectually honest, you'd only be unpleasant.
And what happened to you that you have pathetically reduced yourself to cheating on your wife. All your responses are merely a lame justification to cheat on your wife.

P.S. It's just a dick......dont take it so hard!!!!


MissCinders 55F
1530 posts
7/21/2021 5:26 pm

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    As you have never met me you have no clue how opposite your assumption of what type of person I am is. LOL It isn't pathetic, it is the truth. There are men all over the site posting in blogs and the advice lines how they did NOT get laid on here and certainly NOT in 24 hours as the ads read. What is pathetic is that there is a huge number of people, mostly men, that think this is an online whorehouse and you just sign up, post a dick pic, and they sit back and wait for pussy to arrive at their door as if they got a free pizza delivered to them. In reality that NEVER happens to men on here, if it does they are in a very slim number. I even remember the 'guarantee to get laid' ads that were placed and the men that were totally pissed off because they did NOT read the fine print! That fine print said you had to maintain a gold membership for 3 months, send out 3 emails per day, AND write blogs!!! Most people don't even know there are blogs on here and there is a group of people on here JUST to blog and that includes men... yes MEN!! Their profiles state clearly they are here JUST to blog.

    I would only be unpleasant to you because you can't get what you want from me. LOL I have quite the following on my cam show and guess what? I am NOT here to meet anyone nor ever have. There are others here JUST to cam and not meet anyone. There are men as well as women here looking for more than 100 one night stands. You may not even realize it, but there is a Magazine section in here that even has different articles and things, mostly written by people on the site, including a 'success' section. I know personally of multiple people on here that got married. LOL They just were not so shallow as to think this was just a site full of people only to be used and tossed away. Are there people here looking for just sex? ABSOLUTELY, but there are many here looking for more than JUST sex. You see only what you want to see. Try actually being more open minded and realize that there are people, men and women, that LOVE sex and want a partner for long term that likes to fuck rather than just a bunch of one time stranger encounters.
Itsallfantasy: He must think this is Jimmy Johns.


redrockrascal 62M
23029 posts
7/21/2021 5:46 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Well of course you are because you are married. What else would you be looking for? If your wife doesnt want your dick then why would anyone else? This Queen does not eat crumbs off another woman's table.
M'lady I applaud your response - without the clap

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


DiscreteSlowRide replies on 7/21/2021 6:28 pm:
Yeah speaking of the clap... I hope banana is double bagging it if he is trolling for a bunch of hook ups behind his wifes back...

DiscreteSlowRide 51M
234 posts
7/21/2021 6:45 pm

    Quoting tooshay_turtle:
    I go away for just a short time and noting changes. To the poster, these results have come up over and over and repeat all the time. The men seem to never get that and still insist that if they shove their dick at a woman she will want it.

    To the idiot 71 year old that really believes a woman will choose him based on his 'loads of cum' in her, give me a fucking break dude. That is really stupid if you think a woman will not look at your age, your attitude, and your face let alone your attitude if you just tell her you have loads of cum to put in her. That has to be the stupidest thing I have seen in a long time.

    To answer this even though I am a guy I know that women don't really want the package first. The blogs in here over and over repeat say hello first, wait till I ask, or tell us just how stupid it is to think with your dick. I get it and I also get that this is not a 'sex site'. I have yet to just log in and get some sex.
I have no doubt this is not the first post about dick pics. It sure as hell will not be the last time you see this.
I knew what the results would be, I knew most women would say about how they don't want men to lead with their dicks when they send a first email etc...

What I did not expect is for men to be so fucking defiant about insisting on sending their D picks anyway regardless of what most women tell them.


GhostofH 62M
21779 posts
7/22/2021 7:38 am

While I know this was a poll asking for 'Women's' opinion, since a few men have also voiced their opinions, I thought I would chime in.

I can understand that many women do NOT wish the first thing they see about a potential prospect is their 'member', but perhaps something more sophisticated in terms of an introductory pic. Truthfully, I am of the same opinion when it comes to women's genitalia. Not the first thing I want to see.

We are all 'fishing' for something on/from this site, and it's not the 'bait', but the 'catch' that is what's really important or at issue.

We are all here for the same/different reasons, yet our goal is mostly the same, albeit slightly different. Some are here merely for sex. IN/OUT and on to the next one. Some need a bit more than a Wham Bam, Thank-you Ma'am. I fall into the second category. I cannot simply engage with someone who I otherwise would not have be friends or at least have some areas of commonality or mutual interest had we not met under these circumstances. But perhaps that's just me. Substance/quality over form.

Some are on here seeking more than just a roll in the hay. Some are seeking some form of relationship, perhaps even more. I have been on this site over 15 years, and while I don't profess to have seen it all, I have seen quite a bit.

So I've seen and been to Meet & Greets, Munches, and various other social get- togethers to meet and engage with local members. I've also seen those who have hooked up once and now hate each other. I've also witnessed others who dated and evolved into long term relationships and a few even married/wed. Still others use it as a social networking site of like minded individuals who occasionally socialize together. So I don't feel that that site is ONLY a 'Sex' site, but a site that offers you a 'choice' or fills a need of that which YOU seek. It is NOT a one dimensional site.

So getting back to the initial question...... I myself choose NOT you have a dick pic in my profile especially as my main profile pic. I do it for several reasons. First and foremost, I CHOOSE to differentiate myself from those that do. Like I said earlier, we all use different bait to catch a fish. The important thing is to catch one, but I don't want to catch just any fish. I want the 'best' fish possible for me.


Valkoinen_Leski 53F  
58 posts
7/22/2021 2:40 pm

It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.


GhostofH 62M
21779 posts
7/23/2021 4:43 am

    Quoting Valkoinen_Leski:
    It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

    Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

    The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

    Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.
I concur with your comment/points, VL. Like a traditional Fox Hunt. It's the thrill of the chase.


itsallfantasy 54F  
1030 posts
7/23/2021 7:43 am

    Quoting Valkoinen_Leski:
    It isn't about being disgusted. it is about too much information. It is about not being surprised by anything you do because your first go to was to show me your dick.

    Women like a bit of mystery too. Part of getting to the end game results is the chase. So that trophy we are waiting to see is shown to us like we are supposed to care at that point. In reality, you just look like a child saying "Lookit my peepee!"

    The real women on this site love sex too. It is why we are here. We also like a little fun. Part of that fun could be the very act of surprise at the joy they find in the meat in their meet's pants.

    Sex is a lot better when the slightest efforts are put into the chase.
SPOT ON!!


BBWjawn 36F
50 posts
7/27/2021 1:33 pm

i love them


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