Why do most people flake before meeting?  

GlenW83 38M
14 posts
1/2/2022 7:06 am
Why do most people flake before meeting?

Its a good question, anyone who os experienced on here has had it happen. You invest time and/or money into a meet only have a no show. What do you think is the most common reason?
My
significant other/cheating
Introvert tendencies
Body insecurities
Safety fears
Other


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pollly_anna 58F  
696 posts
1/8/2022 4:39 pm

My one no show............said he was sooooo nervous to meet me, he was in a car accident on his way to the meet........

did I believe him................not a chance!


LordMandrakeJB 65M  
664 posts
1/5/2022 6:50 pm

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Many guys use faked pics
    On the pic he has 180 lbs, how should he explain 280 lbs at the meet?
    Penis size appears an issue too, when I told a guy I don't want to meet him for coffee because his \8 is too big for me in case I fall for him, he told me that he is actually just over 6 inches He sounds nice, will meet him when he is in town for coffee, but the dishonesty is still in the back of my mind.

    Oh yes, [post 4433177] to SEX, all I can think about is Making Babies How about you?
    OVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management and being selective, believing in LOVE and not >>! every nice looking and sounding man does pay off
So, THAT's what I'm doing wrong! I'm using current pictures, don't lie about my weight, or how much I'm packing, or how old I am. Whoda Thunk... LOL


BiSussi 61F
1348 posts
1/4/2022 4:39 pm

Many guys use faked pics
On the pic he has 180 lbs, how should he explain 280 lbs at the meet?
Penis size appears an issue too, when I told a guy I don't want to meet him for coffee because his \8 is too big for me in case I fall for him, he told me that he is actually just over 6 inches He sounds nice, will meet him when he is in town for coffee, but the dishonesty is still in the back of my mind.


Oh yes, [post 4433177] to SEX, all I can think about is Making Babies How about you?
OVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management and being selective, believing in LOVE and not >>! every nice looking and sounding man does pay off


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


Married_Lexingto 47M
33 posts
1/3/2022 6:32 am

I have been flaked on and have flaked a few times too.

It depends on where and when the meet is. What expectations the other person has on you. A couple of times conversations start out more subdued. Others over the top, for me at least. If there is an expectation of play on first meet, more than likely someone will flake. I prefer a quick 5-10 minute hello session, we can decide to go from there. It releases that pressure of acting that day.


Teyjj 54M
4122 posts
1/2/2022 5:10 pm

Meeting someone for “illicit” sex, while intriguing, is still a scary proposition. How it works out depends on not just you but, also, the other party. You have no clue what little thing might throw the other person off, plus you do have to worry about your own performance even before the “date” has even started.


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5752 posts
1/2/2022 2:25 pm

I really don't think there's one reason that fits everyone.

Shoot, I had a meet one time where I got into a car accident on the way there. Shit happens, you know?

Then, there's others who like to fuck with people and had no intention of meeting in the first place.

I'm sure there's thousands of reasons

Find my new HNW on the other side


Paulxx001 64M  
22486 posts
1/2/2022 9:22 am

They were never who they pretended to be and are terrified that someone believed their crap and wants to meet.
😬❗❗


Brownie202 64F  
2660 posts
1/2/2022 8:22 am

Depends on the person. Some never intend to meet. Others caught cheating or could be. If never did it before they chickened out. The person could be there but doesn't like the looks of who meeting. Real emergency comes up.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


GlenW83 38M
11 posts
1/2/2022 8:19 am

Staci i was thinking the same. Happy new years!

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markg109507 37M
24 posts
1/2/2022 8:12 am

Easier to meet in hotel safer for both parties


redrockrascal 63M
23518 posts
1/2/2022 8:10 am

From what I've read here many people who have been flaked upon depended on texting to make arrangements. Texting, besides being an awful way of "communicating", does not allow for the parties involved to get a feel (like women's intuition) for the situation.

I always talk to whomever I'm meeting to get a sense of their sincerity and comfort in meeting. Only 1 flake-ish thing has happened. She got pulled over by the PD and they held her for some reason I now don't recall. We ended up meeting a few days later.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


staci_19702 51T  
3352 posts
1/2/2022 7:53 am

I voted for the cheaters with significant others. Something ruined the timing or they had a moment of clarity and guilt started to settle in.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


GlenW83 38M
11 posts
1/2/2022 7:08 am

I love natural real world women and their bodies. No need to feel insecure in your skin, if im trying to get with u, i have already seen enough if your body to know i want to worship it.

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