Why are you here?  

Unicorngigglebox 39M/21F
16 posts
1/3/2021 9:53 pm
Why are you here?


Why are you here? Why do you make a profile and sign up on this site if you are going ignore your IM's or ignore emails? Why do you block people the instant that they write you and show interest?

Why do you ignore profiles and send random friends requests? Are you so desperate see a video or a picture that you add a random request?

Seriously... I dont know what you think you are doing here if your not going actually take the time get know some one.

BiggLala 49F  
29846 posts
1/4/2021 12:08 pm

Why are you here?
-I joined to meet men where there is mutual attraction and interest in the same situation. Thus, this doesn't mean I'm going to want to get to know everyone. Do you have interest in getting to know any and everyone just because they're here?

Why do you make a profile and sign up on this site if you are going ignore your IM's or ignore emails?
-Depends on the IM/emails sent to me. Some do not warrant response, i.e. the rude or crude, or wholly outside my preferences which indicated they failed to read my profile or outright ignored it.

Why do you block people the instant that they write you and show interest?
-Just because someone shows interest in me doesn't mean I'm interested in them or even obligated to respond to them. Personally, I don't make a habit of immediate blocking, but IF/when I do...see my answer to the second question.

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Unicorngigglebox replies on 1/4/2021 12:39 pm:
I appreciate your candid reply, however this was more posted out of frustration than anything.

The men around here are thirsty as hell and dont bother to read profiles, most of the women just ignore their emails due to prior comment.

It is not about getting to know everyone, but getting to know the few that catch attention after, oh I dont know, reading their profile, reading their blogs, etc.

We decline most random friends requests because most are just SM that are looking to get into private albums for fap fodder, or thy are treating this place like tinder for a quick lay.

Again thank you for the honest response.

BiggLala 49F  
29846 posts
1/5/2021 7:02 pm

It is not about getting to know everyone, but getting to know the few that catch attention after, oh I dont know, reading their profile, reading their blogs, etc.
-Oh absolutely. Perhaps I should have asked whether you're interested in getting to know everyone who's interested in you (both of you or what-have-you). It would be great if "everyone" we're interested in is always (automatically) interested in us. Of course, we know things just don't work that way. And, yes, it would be great if everyone at least responded to our contact...again, we know that isn't always the case. I've had my messages ignored as well.

I can't disagree with anything else you said about this place in your response to me (other than the part about women ignoring emails, since I don't message women; I hear that feedback a lot from men, though). I think it's frustrating for everyone, and we all have our rants.

Hope things improve for you!
Good luck!!!

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Unicorngigglebox replies on 1/5/2021 11:20 pm:
If they take the time to read our profile, than yes, We are more than willing to talk and get to know them. We all have our preference in people and we make sure that is stated clearly. But regardless, thank you.

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