nuances of romance
There are so many morsels to be savored from romance....smell,taste,imagination, give, receive, tingle and the numerous other senses that go into making romance one of the most wonderful and misunderstood occurrences in life. Let's pontificate on this wonderfully aspect of our being.
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punishment....then fun
Posted:May 29, 2020 5:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

Yes, you most definitely will get your mouth washed out with soap according Nuances Of Romance bylaws....if you ever say: I would have, I could have, I should have. There are no excuses in romance, like ...I am too tired, the timing is not right, I feel fat, or whatever comes to mind. Romance does not knock on your door and drag you out... it does knock but you have to drag it inside. So get ready for the knoc...and no damn excuses.... like: I would have, I could have, I should have. It is adventure time, cut it loose and have some fun. The shut down is over and there is a good supply of soap..... go have fun.
Tiny bubbles
Posted:May 21, 2020 8:50 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

I had lunch the other day with an old business associate, we were discussing previous business ventures and philosophizing about life. The major perception we came to was that business ebbs and flows in bubbles, that is... you get into a bubble and business is great and life is grand. Then the bubble can burst at any moment and the dreams and projects you wanted to complete are gone in a puff. Romance is very much the same, when fantasies and dreams are available you had better act on them. That bubble of opportunity can burst at any moment and all you have left is a wet face and regrets of not fulfilling those dreams and fantasies. Go have fun and let those wants and desires never know when that bubble will burst or you have a pandemic.
Posted:May 11, 2020 5:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

Shine is used very much in a descriptive way or even as a noun. We are going use it both ways in our Romance lesson today. What puts the shine on a Romance or the shine emanating from a person after a Romantic encounter. It is pure and simple ...lots of elbow grease and wet lips. A shine does not come easily, it takes lots of attention and passion to bring that little twinkle out in a shine. Whether it is polishing those nipples, wet vacuuming the sensitive areas or whispering erotic is well worth the effort when that shine blossoms and the sparkle is blinding. Now don't forget, you can't put a shine on romance with out some effort [ or elbow grease] so get off the couch and enjoy.
Monday morning review
Posted:May 4, 2020 7:28 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

Saturday night late...
Ok...You are getting a double feature, but since I'm getting paid such vast amounts{monetary and carnal] what the hell...let it flow. So, some of my thoughts after some great veal and a sniffer of port:

Every sixty seconds you spend angry, upset or mad, is a full minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile.

Sunday Morning...

Now, drinking my coffee and finishing my post..... and no I did not forget to hit add post last night, I have learned to edit a post from an evening of imbibing. My reflective addition to this post is: that social or economic status in life has no impact on enjoyment, it is how you perceive life and pursue it.

Monday morning review..... print it

Enjoy life my friends
Fences and Bob
Posted:Apr 26, 2020 7:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2020 8:49 am

We all have built fences around areas of our personality, these are areas we do not want to show other people...much less even let them know they exist. There is a physio dynamics study of how people erect these fences for self protection and keep their true feelings hidden. Most of the readers here think they are liberated and the gate is wide open to their fence....oh silly people. We just sit on the fence and throw small and censored bits of our soul out for consumption and consider ourselves open minded people. Lets do some spring cleaning and throw out our hang-ups about romance and display some of that forbidden fruit hidden on the other side of the fence. You can not ride that fence forever, jump off and get your knees stained with grass.....and enjoy yourself. As Bob Dylan sings[ by the way, is turning 77] the times they are a changing.... if he can change, you can too.
Quarantined.... make ice cream
Posted:Apr 20, 2020 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

I know everybody is getting bored being sheltered in place, so here is a analogy keep you perky.

Ice Cream is a good analogy romance, in that we have enjoyed it at one time and react it differently. The basic flavors of strawberry, chocolate and vanilla were our introduction ice cream, then we started adding different flavors[ gummy bears ,mocha mint and etc] enhance our enjoyment of one of the true rights of enjoyment. Then we started worrying about cholesterol, calories and lactose intolerant concerns. Ice Cream is like romance, stick with the basics and add some whipped cream, chocolate syrup or other goodies if enhancement is needed....and if you use common sense you can still enjoy to the fullest without over stepping health concerns. So don't give up ice cream, it is still one of the simplest enjoyments of life and you should never abandon it. So, if the boring vortex is hitting you......just think ice cream and romance.
Posted:Apr 12, 2020 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

No, this is not referring to the entitled generation or a socioeconomic status. It is referring to one of the biggest killers of good romance, and the thought that everyone is entitled to good and lasting romance that they don't have to work for it. There is a saying a wise man once said[ ok ok, it was me] only get out of romance what you put into it. Boys and girls, you got to work at romance.....being witty and cute opens lots of doors but you can't rest on those laurels or slowly you are moved out the door. The same position and no creativity and adventure puts rust on the romance. So oil up all your toys and mind and go work at having fun..... and people wonder why you don't get invited back to the playground. Hmmm
if it ain't broke......
Posted:Mar 30, 2020 8:37 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

Jimmy Buffett keeps touring , adding a few new songs with the old..... if it is still working for him, me too.

JB did a song a few years back called" Attitudes and Latitudes" and you can really apply this to romance. There is also a business and sociological term called the Pendulum Effect, combine both of these and you have a remedy for good romance and a more enjoyable life. You have to have a change in routine and life every once in a while....just to appreciate what you have or to realize what you are missing. I do not know whether this is from laziness or fear of the unknown, but damn it.....shake things up a little and enjoy romance and life with a different perspective.

BTW...he does a version of Jesse Winchester's Rhumba Man which is one of my all time favorites in any genre.
Grey or Gray
Posted:Mar 23, 2020 7:38 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

Romance is never black or white, most people have this conception about sex and romance and they are the ones who are not enjoying the nuances of romance. Romance is something you can't describe, it falls into the category of grey... or is that gray? There are two origins and spellings to this color and both are correct. Just like there are many variances to romance and they are all correct, so go out there and discover if you in the gray or grey area....or somewhere in between, since they are correct.
The woman who thought she was naughty
Posted:Mar 17, 2020 11:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2020 9:41 am

I am really racking my brain justify how people can describe romance and all the wonderful nuances that accompany this delicacy by referring dirty mind, let's get nasty, doing a naughty thing and so on. Romance should only be thought of as hollow grounds where pure sensual thoughts and wonderful feelings are prevalent. People that describe it as naughty or dirty have no clue, thus there is no way for them indulge in the great nuances of romance. So let's get out the white paint, lacey white lingerie and change the attitude or perception of romance.... it is Lilly White and on a pedestal. Where it belongs
three part harmony
Posted:Mar 9, 2020 5:41 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

I was getting a massage the other day and the masseuse told me when she finished up....take a deep breath and be at peace with your body, mind and soul. Now with my normal sensual thought pattern... realized this would relate very much to the nuances of romance. Romance and sensuality is not complete if your body , mind and soul have not bought into the process. Yes, it is ok to work with one or two of them but to really enjoy the need all three Body, Mind Soul. Now go enjoy.
Leap year thought
Posted:Feb 29, 2020 5:48 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

I have been drinking Conundrum wine several is a white that varies from year to year. The wine makers take whatever grapes are good that year and blend them into a very delicious Conundrum wine. The word conundrum is a riddle or problem that only has a conjectural answer. got it, the perfect way to describe romance. There isn't a real description just a conjectural idea. Like the wine, you have to blend whatever is appealing to you at the present time and just sit back and enjoy a invigorating swallow. Don't try to figure out the Romantic Conundrum, just enjoy fitting the pieces together.
romantic advise
Posted:Feb 17, 2020 5:55 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2020 1:22 pm

There are simple rules enjoy the nuances of romance. Rule number one.....have fun. I notice that most of the members on this site have all these rules... wants, desires, what they will and will not do, agendas and generally making romance too damn difficult. What they really need is to follow these simple rules and the rewards are utterly fantastic. Just remember to have fun and never regret anything that makes you smile....and never let preconceived ideas ruin the fun. Rule number and ..ohh, they are the same as rule number keep it simple and abide by these rules and enjoy my friends.

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