I live Ontario but travel to St. John's to work every few weeks. I find this site hard to navigate as a standard member. It asks me to pay to send a message and IM? I am married so discretion is a must. I've never cheated on my husband but i find as he gets older, he is more complacent with our sex life while I am feeling exploratory. Not that our sex life is bad by any means. I'd just like to experiment while I still can. I have never been with a couple before, so I wouldn't mind trying that if you have patience. If i feel rushed, this will not work. I need to find us comfortable talking first, hopefully to meet sooner than later before I change my mind and wonder " what are you thinking!!!' I also wouldn't mind exploring with a mature married man in my same situation as we may have things in common. Sorry single young men. I'm not looking for you. I can't express enough that you need to be discreet. Let's chat and see where this goes.