Let me begin by saying that I am a total people-pleaser, constantly going out of my way to make sure other people are happy. However, I also have a very independent side which is currently needing some serious attention! I am well-educated, attractive, and have a great job that I truly love. If you're looking for a girly girl, please move on. Although I like to dress up when I go out (and have to for work), I love nothing more than throwing my camping gear in the back of my rig and escaping to the great outdoors. One last thing...intelligence, sarcasm, wit, and a good sense of humor are huge turn-ons for me. If you send me an e-mail or IM that simply says "Hi," or "How is your day going?" DON'T expect a response. B-O-R-I-N-G!. There are thousands of people on this site. If you can't come up with something more creative/original than "Hi," please don't even bother. P.S. If you don't receive a response after say, a third or fourth message you've sent, DON'T KEEP SENDING MESSAGES! There is a fine line between persistence and desperation/neediness. Please keep that in mind.