Been together 25 years. Deeply in love and in need of advice. We booth love sex but have issues. Have watched striate, bi, gay, lesbo and TV movies and could be bi because we both enjoyed all of them. She is a slow starter and sometimes just lays there. It takes a while but she will let go and when she does she has fun with every thing we do. I know she gets into sex because we have done things, and she will cum like there is no tomorrow. She really gets into it when she has a buzz on. She lets go and really gets off on the things we do and have done. He is intoxicated with her. He cant go to bed with out needing to touch her. He needs to please her. He cant help but want her. He will loose his concentration at times and can't perform for her. This makes him very sad because he know she needs him. He wants her to do things but is afraid she will be mad. He likes her be the one in control, giving the orders. In the past she has done things that have been very kinky and have turned booth of us on. Each time she has cum with so much intensity she screams.

My Ideal Person Looking for a couple that can guide us in a new direction. You must take it slow with us as we are very new to this. Would like to start with e-mail giving us some ideas. How can we brake down our inhibitions and let each other know what we like and want. This could work into possible photo swap (no face shots)then we can go from there. If you are not serious about helping us out please don't waist our time

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
his-the wife is out and not due back till late. the kids are
gone for the night and i have nothing to do for hours. i make
a cocktail and sit down at the computer. after a short time
i come across a few files i don't recognize. i am shocked
to find they are of a sexual nature with pictures and stories
of women using strap-ons. i am shocked because she tells
me all the time she does not fantasize about sex.
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i find myself getting excited. the more i look the harder
i get. i come across one set of pictures of a wife who just
caught her man in her pantie draw and she is mad as hell. she
makes him strip down then she dresses him in a full array
of her wear. by this time i cant get the thought of being in
his situation out of my head. i go into the bed room strait
to her dresser. i remove a matching set of panties and bra,
nylons and slip. i began to dress, the feeling agents my
skin is electrifying. i finish up and head back to the computer.

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i continua going through the files, one after another, after
another. there are so many that i couldn't get through
them in a night. the thought of my wife having all this kink
is going to make me cum. i start rubbing my cock. it feels
so good. i sens some one in the room and turn to see my wife
in the doorway. i am busted, all dressed up in her underwear.
she as you might of guessed had been standing there long
enough to see exactly what i was doing. i notice that her
pants are unzipped, she was playing with herself the whole
time witch turned me on even more. she asks, what am i doing
dressed like that and how long has it been going on. i tell
her its the first time. she knows that is a lie because of
the condition of her underwear draw in the past. after a
few minuets of silence she tells me to make her a drink then
come to the bedroom.
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i head off into the kitchen to make her a drink. i hear her
going through the closet and draws. when i enter the room
i see she has lit candles and incense. she has changed into
a very sexy dress. she is looking at herself in the mirror.
she knows she looks hot. i see the panties she put on this
morning on the bed. i am 5 feet away from them and can see they
are wet in the crotch. she was getting off watching me. i
ask her if she liked it and her reply was " that was the
most disgusting thing she has seen in a long time, and i should
be ashamed of my self. how could i dress like that and serf
the web jacking off in my little panties" and now i
was hers to do with as she pleased. i started to protest when
she turned and snapped a picture. she was going to teach
me a lesson for lying about this being the first time.
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i begin to realize that she didn't know i found the files.
she thought i was on the web. she couldn't hide the fact
that it turned her on seeing me dressed like that. her wet
panties proved it.
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to be continued

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Her: Receiving oral sex, anal, toys, leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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